How To Make Beautiful Women Fall For You

When it comes to attraction, us guys are very physical. We go straight for looks, so most of us automatically react in the following fashion when we see an exceptionally beautiful woman: “She’s so ravishing. I’ve got to have her!”

Tell you what: bad move.

There are ways of making pretty girls fall for you, but they all involve letting go of this mindset. Just because a woman is beautiful doesn’t mean she’s intelligent, funny, charismatic, ambitious – in short: truly attractive. So here’s your lesson for today: get her off the pedestal and treat her as a human being.

Beautiful Women Like Strong Men

Why is it that so many guys turn into nervously fidgeting, asexual jellyfish when it comes to approaching hotties and keeping them engaged?

It’s as if beauty lifted women above the spheres of mere humanity and turned them into some kind of fairy tale princesses that can only be touched with satin gloves. I’ll tell you a secret: they’re still regular human beings made of flesh and blood. It’s true though that being beautiful will change a woman’s perception of the world and, thus, her personality: from her teenage years, she’ll get used to men bending to her every wish, and she’ll learn to use her beauty to her advantage whenever she pleases.

She’ll also get bored out of her mind. In fact, the nice, friendly wusses will eventually annoy the heck out of her, especially when they try to hide that they like her looks. Soon enough, she’ll long for a real male, a big bad ballsy hunk of man-flesh to treat her with some real masculinity. One who’ll give her a poignant teaser conversation and then say “You’re sexy and I like your sense of humour, we should go out. I have time on Monday” instead of talking to her forever and then choking on “I hope you don’t mind my asking, but would you mind awfully if I bought you dinner some time?”

This is where you should come in.

Alpha Male

If you want to take things anywhere with a beautiful woman, get your head out of your butt right now and act like the alpha male you’re supposed to be. Here’s a couple of tools for that:

1. Realize that there is variety. She isn’t the only beautiful woman around, and you are aware that there are other options. If you shift your mindset from “oh dear, I hope she’ll like me” to “let’s see if she has enough to offer so I’ll like her”, the woman will realize that you’re not an easy catch.

2. Show her that you’re not going to give in to her games and bitching. You have your own life and perspective, you’re in control of that and you’re gonna take things in your direction. Show her that you know what you want and you’re going to get it. If she doesn’t want to go along, it’s her loss.

3. Be funny, but don’t seek to amuse her. Amuse yourself! Before you go meet a girl, get yourself into a fun mood, e.g. watch one of your favourite comedies (40 Year Old Virgin is awesome). When you interact with her, always laugh inside. Think of funny ways to interpret what’s happening, or funny things to say: “Hey, you have something in your face.” – “Oh, really?” (wait for her to fidget around in her face) “Yeah. It’s your nose.”

4. Tease her. Be just a little too sure about yourself, just a tad arrogant! “We shouldn’t become lovers. I don’t think you could take me.” But always keep it on a playful note or else you’ll tick her off. For instance, stop in front of a mirror, call her over and say: “Hey, did you see the awesome pictures they have here?” If you show her that you know you’re attractive (and you are, don’t let anybody tell you otherwise), she’ll pick up on it. She’ll be attracted.

These are just some examples. Lastly, note that I’m not advertising treating a woman badly here. You still have to respect her as the beautiful being she is, respect her ideas, wishes and desires, and make her feel good about herself. You want her to be comfortable around you. Be positive, affirmative and funny, but show that you have direction and purpose, and that you’re not going to hand her your balls on a silver platter. Once you have your confidence together, attracting beautiful women into your life will be a much easier accomplishment.

Two Mistakes That Prevent Men From Ever Finding Their “Dream Girl”

Usually my older students, the ones that have been practicing seduction for one or two years and have reasonable success with women, tend to ask me: “Why don’t I have the girl of my dreams in my life yet? It seems as if all the girls in my life have flaws that just make them impossible to date.” Well today, I’ll share with you a little insight about getting the woman of your dreams: If you’re just trying to meet women at random, you’re not going to find the one you’re truly looking for (Well, you might if you’re lucky, but why not just do it the easier way?)

Know What You Want

In order to to succeed, you need to take two steps back first. You need to know exactly what kind of woman you want, and before that, you need to know yourself. Without this groundwork, you’ll have a hard time even creating attraction, and once you get a girl, chances are you won’t be happy with her.

Most men will say they know what kind of woman they want, but if you inquire, you’re likely to get a rather vague response: “Well… I want her to be sexy, intelligent and funny.” Right. So why is it that of all the women who share these traits, only a few will be really good matches? What you need is a solid concept about what you want. Here’s where you start:

Know Yourself

What makes you UNIQUE? You need to explore yourself, you want to go way beyond your hobbies or everyday life. I know it’s the oldest psycho-trick in the book, but go back to your youth and childhood. Think about what made you tick, who provided the soundtrack to your life, what you loved to play with, which books your mom read to you and what they meant, what the defining moments in your life were. That stuff stays with us! Then, think about peculiarities you have: I, for instance, can wiggle my left nostril – it’s true. Also, look into your future. Where do you want to take your dreams, ambitions, passions? Do that soul-searching for a few days, I promise you’ll come up with amazing things. To help, here’s a list of 81 questions geared towards figuring out who you are.

Write down what you discover about yourself. It will make for some great conversation later on.

Know What Kind of Woman You Want

This is where you work out the specifics. Many women are sexy, intelligent and funny, but that doesn’t necessarily make them appealing to you: so think about what kind of woman you find most attractive.

• How does she dress?
• Is she elegant, sportive, artsy, a rocker chick, a goth, a party girl?
• Which ones of your passions does she share?
• What can she teach you?
• What’s her eye colour? (me, I’m a sucker for dark eyes)
• Does she fall asleep with her favourite cuddly toy in her arms?
• Is she strong and independent?
• Does she smoke?
• Drink?
• Does he have piercings, tattoos?
• What do they mean to her?
• What’s her sexuality?
• What’s her body type?
• What kinds of places does she go to?
• Does she laugh a lot?
• Crack jokes?
• Or is she shy?
• Is she conservative, does she like to play things safe?
• Or is she adventurous?
• Sports or video games?
• Beach or mountain?
• Vanilla or chocolate?

You get the idea, write down everything you can imagine about your ideal woman.

Go and Find Her

Now we’re back where we “started”.

More often than not, a guy will blame himself if a conversation with a beautiful woman goes downhill. While there certainly are ways of avoiding that (read our article “How To Talk to Girls” to learn more), consider that if you don’t get an exciting conversation going with a girl, perhaps it’s just not meant to be. There’s nothing wrong with either of you then. Now that you know who you are and where you’re going, you can be goal-oriented: approach a girl whose appearance and demeanour appeals to you, share something you’re enthusiastic about, see if she picks up on it. Don’t be afraid to test her! If nothing else, she’ll realize you have your act together and know what you want. She’ll sense that you’re not just another guy that aimlessly approaches beauties. That’s a good position to be in!

A final word of caution: when you go get the women you want, make sure you don’t start chasing dreams. You might know now what your perfect woman will be like, but you’re going to run into real-life human beings that aren’t perfect. Approach a girl with your destination in mind, but don’t measure her against your “perfect one”. If you start comparing her to your perfect vision, you’ll end up empty-handed. Just make sure to have a good balance between knowing what you want and accepting her differences. So remember to do the exercises because, once you know exactly who you are and who you’re looking for, you’ll end up finding her.Source: artofseductions